Friends

We had the wonderful privilege of spending time with friends this weekend, both old and new. Henry was invited to a play date on Friday as he didn't have school. Our whole family was then invited to dinner as a continuation of the play date. It was a real treat to be invited into Henry's social scene and Nick and I made some new friends as a result. At one point I went to check on Henry and his buddy. They were laying in his friend's bed just chatting about school and their friends. He is no longer just mine- he has a whole world outside of our home. I think that's amazing. 

Saturday was Isabelle's first solo birthday party. No Henry. No mom and dad. She was invited to a tea party where they made bracelets, crowns, painted nails and had a dance party. My kind of tea party. Isabelle had a lovely time and informed me that she doesn't need me to stay with her at parties now. She is no longer just mine either. 

While Isabelle was at the party I went to lunch and read magazines. Alone. For two hours. It was amazing. Nick had Henry and they spent a productive morning together. Henry earns an allowance each week- one buck for completing various chores on his chart. If he does them all, along with good behavior, he can earn a bonus buck. He puts 50% in a spending jar, 25% in a savings jar and 25% in a giving jar. He left with his savings and giving jars that morning. With his giving he bought a toy for toys for tots and with his savings he opened a savings account. He was seriously pumped: 

I wish I was as enthusiastic about saving money. I'm proud of him for going along with this plan with such joy. Save it up, homey.

After all of the morning action we headed to a second birthday party for a little buddy of Henry and Isabelle's. We've known this family for several years and just really enjoy spending time with them. They are the kind of friends who always make you feel welcome, meet you where you are, and never judge. Not you. Not anyone. No gossip, just fun and laughing. It's really refreshing and we are grateful to know them. 

We headed home for the evening as our dinner plans were cancelled due to the host having sick family members. Henry was hanging out with Nick and I was dorkin it up with Isabelle, thanksgiving style:

Ya know? Just tying fall ribbon on pens so guests can write what they are thankful for. I bet the guests are going to LOVE this activity...

While we were tying ribbon the doorbell rang. It was the friend we had dinner plans with. He had a full meal for our family- kindness at its best. It was such a surprise and something I will never forget. I mean seriously. That is some nice stuff right there. 

We ended the weekend by inviting one of Nick's former coworkers and her family over for dinner. We spent the evening getting to know one another while the kids played. It can be difficult to make new friends as adults, but this family made it so easy and we will look forward to our next gathering. 

It seems that the moral of this tale is: 

call your old friends and make some plans.

meet a new friend and make some plans.

Both are good for the ol' heart. 

--maggie